Saturday, February 4, 2012

What is wrong with women that they are afraid to committ???

I was exclusive with a woman for three (3) months. Things were great, or so I thought...lol We talked on the phone for hours every night. We went out every weekend. We spent a spectacular weekend at the inner harbor (Baltimore, MD.) THEN she tells me how she is infactuated with her boss of three (3) years but it will never go anywhere. She is really beautiful and special to me. What to do now to communicate with her.....What is wrong with women that they are afraid to committ???
Doesn't seem as if she is afraid to committ. More like she is still in love with the boss. Continue to go out with her. Pretend as if you never know who she likes and try to win her heart. If you are bothered by the fact she likes her boss, most probably she will be able to feel it and this will hinder the relationship from developing further. You gotta let her know you are willing to stay by her side and wait for her to get over her boss. All the best. =)
Would'nt matter.lots of people have infatuations.She's doing the right thing by youWhat is wrong with women that they are afraid to committ???
Maybe her boss can't perform and you can.



Do you honestly want a relationship based on sex?



If you enjoy the sex, that's your call but there's more to a relationship than steamy sex. She may sue you for child support or worst. Maybe you need to find a life partner with whom you can develop mutual respect and trust and avoid steamy sex before marriage. Meanwhile, let your "fling" know that things are over and done and keep to your word even if she shows up in nothing but a fur coat with Dom Perignon.
let her go!! she sounds crazy....if she's infatuated with her boss for 3 years...she's gonna be infatuated another 3 years to come...don't waste ur time!!!What is wrong with women that they are afraid to committ???
Don't worry about it. Her boss is more desirable than you. However, he is probably out of her league. They may have sex but after he dumps she will come back to you until she falls for the next good looking guy. However, after she has her fill of flings that go nowhere, she will settle for you.



Just have patience.
Elvin, the part that bothers me is, she stated; she knows that a relationship with her boss will never go anywhere. Ask yourself. What would she do if her boss was in a situation where something could develop? I am not intentionally trying to hurt you, however, if her boss was available under the right circumstances, would she stay with you? I personally would not want to know that I was not her first choice. I think I would try and stay away from her for awhile, and see if her infatuation is just a passing thing. Everyone deserves to be "#1" in a great relationship.
Move on she is in love with her boss and thats a dead end for both of you. There is someone out there for you and when the time is right you will find her or she will find you. It's called fate. Good luck

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